Two things people most need from us are unbiased understanding and sincere care. All this way more than suggestions and guidance.

Understanding and Care
Two things people most need from us are unbiased understanding and sincere care. All this way more than suggestions and guidance.
One thing that I quickly learned when I started coaching and teaching is that of course people needed guidance from me, but they needed something else, more urgently.
What a person needs when hard times, difficulties, troubles, stress, sorrow, or pain occur is not to receive suggestions, hints, or lessons. There is a huge need for an unbiased understanding of the situation, that will bring to sincere care for the person.
Humanity, compassion, an open mind, a loving heart, and a helping spirit are, in these situations, more effective than pure and abstract knowledge.
Having been on both sides, I have chosen to be a holistic coach and consultant, as I want to be able to provide my experience, expertise, and knowledge to those I help, business and people, but also awareness, understanding, compassion, care, and commitment.
We cannot separate the components of our being. We cannot help or heal one, leaving out the others.
And you? Which is your experience with understanding and care?
Reblogged this on Ned Hamson's Second Line View of the News.
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